Tag Archives: care-taking

Back Home, Head Spinning

I’ve been home for four days, after helping my younger daughter in Bend, who had ankle surgery, and her two little boys, ages four and six and a half.  I slept for one whole day after my return, and felt … Continue reading

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Doing Too Much

I was trained to do too much for everyone around me, which I think is true for many women who grew up in the fifties. Being a good ‘care-taker’ made us good women! A friend’s mom continued to ‘give her … Continue reading

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My Mother’s First Heart Attack

My mother’s first heart attack affected my entire life. I was only four, my sister 8, and we were sent away to a distant Aunt and Uncle. I had no idea if I’d ever see her again. When we were … Continue reading

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Caring, Care-taking, Enabling: Which Is Which?

In all my friendships over the years I have tried to be a caring, committed friend.  It wasn’t until I had been in Alanon for awhile that I began to see that sometimes what I thought of as caring was … Continue reading

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